I'd like to write here about what and why we are doing this:

As part of my final coursework for a class I'm taking for my MA degree called “Critical Pedagogy in Contested Spaces”, I have the task of working with a collaborator (Carrie) on the idea of a “contested space”. In the course, we looked at conflict spaces such as Belfast in Northern Ireland and the Middle East. We then looked at how art and artists work have influenced and represented these contested spaces. Finally, we were asked to reflect critically on our own pedagogical practice and connect our research to the contested spaces in our own lives, in our own teaching and with the students we work with.

For my collaborative project with Carrie, we are looking at how with parenthood our marriage has become a contested space. This blog is one part of our work and uses the idea of feeding ourselves good food as a way of nurturing our bodies and our relationship.

Some of the questions we'll be asking ourselves as we work are:

  • How is the space of a marriage created by the two individuals in it? What does the current space of our marriage look like?
  • How does introducing the new roles of being parents create tension and division within this space?
  • How can these tensions and divisions be acknowledged and worked on through art, spiritual and social practice and pedagogy?
  • How has becoming a parent been traumatic?
  • How have we experienced loss in our marriage due to parenthood?
  • What effect does parenthood have on our individual and collective identities?

This project is about exploring the contested space of parenthood and marriage. It is about critically evaluating where we are, who we are and what our marriage has become since we became parents two years ago. Through our work we will rediscover our intentions and reclaim our identities both individually and as a couple. As we continue this work, we hope to reconfigure the space of our marriage toward a more integrated family life.

P.S. For those following our blog who have some thoughts on these questions, please share a comment with us.




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    Where we were/ Where we are...

    For two years before Carrie got pregnant, we were eating nutrient-dense foods and training for ½ marathon walks. We were losing weight and getting into shape. And then we had a baby. A difficult labor and C-section followed by complications, coupled with a collicky baby who wouldn't breastfeed meant that Carrie was out for the count and spent much of her time pumping breast milk. And her mom, who we had slated to feed us for the first two months of Gryffin's life was instead standing in to help Stacey as parent number two. 

    With all that stress our nutrition went out the window. Fast forward two years now and although we have improved somewhat, our nutrition is still a major issue and it seems all our energy goes into being good moms with little left over for taking care of ourselves and our relationship. Parenthood on our marriage has become a contested space and so we've decided to do something about it. 

    This 30 day Food Challenge blog is part of a collaborative project we are doing to reconnect to ourselves and reclaim our marriage as a top family priority. We will be talking, seeking help from others, connecting to spirit through journeys, making art and documenting our project here on this website.  This work will also be featured as part of Stacey's Masters degree programme at Goldsmiths – University of London.

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    Carrie and Stacey have been creating together since they met in 2003.  Their collaborations include a seven year marriage, a two year old daughter, various art projects and yoga-art-spirit retreat workshops.  They are committed to furthering their connection to the world through mind, body, art and spirit.

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