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Well it has truly begun. Today friends came and took 99% of our furniture and I am typing this while sitting on the floor because we now have no chairs in our house. We are at that truly obnoxious state of packing when you have most of it done and what is left is random and problematic and requires mental energy to deal with. The decisions are endless and we are spent. I just want it all to go away and it is taking everything I have to just do a little bit at a time and not crawl in a hole and hide. 

Our friends brought us a lovely dinner from their Cafe (Cafe Natura)..cous cous, a jacket potato loaded with roasted vegetables, delicious potato wedges roasted in olive oil and herbs, a veggie pasta bake with bowtie pasta that Gryffin called butterflies, and a cold cabbage salad.  This is just one of the many meals they've provided for us these past two weeks in exchange for the furniture and bits and bobbles of things we've given them. [Their son Anaua is pictured here in the midst what remains in our living room....tired out from all the heavy lifting.] The remaining food, spices and small items go to another friend of ours here who also has a small child and we feel joy in the release and giving of our things to those we've come to know and care about. We have been very fortunate with gifts of household items from our family in the past and enjoy seeing the circle continue as we pay it forward.





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    Where we were/ Where we are...

    For two years before Carrie got pregnant, we were eating nutrient-dense foods and training for ½ marathon walks. We were losing weight and getting into shape. And then we had a baby. A difficult labor and C-section followed by complications, coupled with a collicky baby who wouldn't breastfeed meant that Carrie was out for the count and spent much of her time pumping breast milk. And her mom, who we had slated to feed us for the first two months of Gryffin's life was instead standing in to help Stacey as parent number two. 

    With all that stress our nutrition went out the window. Fast forward two years now and although we have improved somewhat, our nutrition is still a major issue and it seems all our energy goes into being good moms with little left over for taking care of ourselves and our relationship. Parenthood on our marriage has become a contested space and so we've decided to do something about it. 

    This 30 day Food Challenge blog is part of a collaborative project we are doing to reconnect to ourselves and reclaim our marriage as a top family priority. We will be talking, seeking help from others, connecting to spirit through journeys, making art and documenting our project here on this website.  This work will also be featured as part of Stacey's Masters degree programme at Goldsmiths – University of London.

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    Carrie and Stacey have been creating together since they met in 2003.  Their collaborations include a seven year marriage, a two year old daughter, various art projects and yoga-art-spirit retreat workshops.  They are committed to furthering their connection to the world through mind, body, art and spirit.

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